Self-doubt can be one of the biggest saboteurs when it come\nto creating the life that we want for ourselves. If left unchecked, it can\nleave us feeling unworthy, unhappy and unfulfilled. If that’s not sounding like\na place you want to visit anytime soon, then you have to do something to shift\nyour thoughts from coming from a place of doubt and fear to one of confidence\nand courage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
When we suffer from self-doubt, we struggle to make\ndecisions. I know indecisiveness well. The fear of making the wrong decision\nused to paralyze me in a lot of situations that truthfully didn’t need that\nlevel of caution. I had to learn how to paint a positive picture of the amazing\npossibilities instead of falling into the habit of worrying about the worst\ncase scenario.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
We can use our self-doubt to justify inaction which leads to\nprocrastination. If we can’t get it done right, what’s the point in even\ngetting started, right? Trust me, if you’re looking for an excuse not to do\nsomething, you’ll always find it! This is why it’s so important to be clear\nabout the vision you want for your life. Without that clarity you will lack the\nmotivation needed to do the scary stuff regardless of whether or not you’re\nconfident it will work.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Regret is another side-effect of self-doubt. When your\ndoubts are bigger than your desires, you live life with a lot of coulda, woulda, shoulda<\/em> – but you\ndidn’t. No one’s really interested in hearing about how you could have been\nliving your dream, but chose not to. That’s not motivating or inspiring to\nanyone (unless you’re really miserable and no one wants to end up like you).\nWhy beat yourself up about all the missed opportunities?<\/p>\n\n\n\n So how do we overcome self-doubt? We have to look at the\nsource of many of the limiting beliefs we have and deal with them at the root.\nSometimes we can do the work necessary on our own, other times we need to seek\nthe guidance of professionals. Whatever path you choose, it’s important to do\nsomething if you feel like the doubts you have about yourself are stopping you\nfrom creating the life you want and deserve.<\/p>\n\n\n\n We have to find a way to believe that we deserve the success\nwe want in life. We have to tell ourselves that our past does not define our\npresent or our future. Most importantly, we have to remember that we’ve had\nsome kind of success in the past. It doesn’t matter if that success was 2 years\nago or 20. What’s important is to remember that something amazing happened to\nyou once, and it can happen again! We need to stop worrying about what other\npeople are thinking and focus on what’s important to us. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Doing what it takes to overcome self-doubt isn’t going to\nhappen overnight. It’s going to take work, but the rewards will be worth it. If\nyou’d like some more help in overcoming self-doubt in your own life, sign up\nfor the 10-Day e-course using the form below!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Self-doubt can be one of the biggest saboteurs when it come to creating the life that we want for ourselves. If left unchecked, it can leave us feeling unworthy, unhappy and unfulfilled. If that’s not sounding like a place you want to visit anytime soon, then you have to do something to shift your thoughts […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3924,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[8],"tags":[1763,1282,502,857,1762,297,1757,656,537,269,299,282,1274,900,1758],"class_list":["post-3923","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-thoughtoftheday","tag-creating-the-life-you-deserve","tag-creating-the-life-you-want","tag-embrace-your-destiny","tag-excuses","tag-free-ecourse","tag-indecisiveness","tag-overcoming-self-doubt","tag-procrastination","tag-sandra-dawes","tag-self-confidence","tag-self-esteem","tag-self-worth","tag-self-doubt","tag-self-sabotage","tag-valuing-yourself"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/harbirzinc.com\/sandradawes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3923","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/harbirzinc.com\/sandradawes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/harbirzinc.com\/sandradawes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harbirzinc.com\/sandradawes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harbirzinc.com\/sandradawes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3923"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/harbirzinc.com\/sandradawes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3923\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3925,"href":"https:\/\/harbirzinc.com\/sandradawes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3923\/revisions\/3925"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harbirzinc.com\/sandradawes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3924"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/harbirzinc.com\/sandradawes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3923"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harbirzinc.com\/sandradawes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3923"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harbirzinc.com\/sandradawes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3923"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}