{"id":4480,"date":"2023-02-11T20:07:56","date_gmt":"2023-02-11T20:07:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/harbirzinc.com\/sandradawes\/?p=4480"},"modified":"2023-02-11T20:07:57","modified_gmt":"2023-02-11T20:07:57","slug":"appreciating-the-silence","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/harbirzinc.com\/sandradawes\/2023\/02\/11\/appreciating-the-silence\/","title":{"rendered":"Appreciating the silence"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Sometimes I like to work with music playing in the background, and other times I find it distracting. I guess it&#8217;s the nature of the work I&#8217;m doing that determines whether I want music playing. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It&#8217;s funny how I could do my homework with the television on when I was in high school. I wouldn&#8217;t pay attention to what was happening on the TV; I just wanted the background noise while working, and it would drive my parents crazy since they couldn&#8217;t see how I could work like that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I guess I&#8217;ve changed with age. \ud83d\ude32 Now, I do my best work in silence. If I&#8217;m working on a project for myself, I may choose to play some music to put me in the right headspace.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As life has become noisier, I&#8217;m learning to appreciate the silence and not feel I need to fill every space with sound. The only sound I&#8217;m hearing as I write this post is the sound of the keys my fingers are clicking (and a washing machine running in the background \ud83d\ude09).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Recently, I&#8217;ve been spending my alone time catching up with friends and getting work done. I could watch TV. I haven&#8217;t touched Netflix in months, and I don&#8217;t think I&#8217;ll be watching the Super Bowl tomorrow. I love my moments of silence and feel like it&#8217;s a mediation on its own. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I enjoy continuing to learn more about myself. I realize now that my preference to work on my own is partly due to being able to work in silence if I want to. In an office setting, you can&#8217;t control all the noise that may be around you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This isn&#8217;t to say that I don&#8217;t enjoy noise sometimes. I have moments when I&#8217;m driving where I crank up the radio and sing along to my favourite songs or do the same thing at home. I go to concerts and every once in a while go to a venue where they play loud music. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I do enjoy noise sometimes. Sometimes I can&#8217;t escape it (like when the neighbours play loud music late at night). I&#8217;ll also never say no to turning everything off and simply sitting in silence. \u2764\ufe0f<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes I like to work with music playing in the background, and other times I find it distracting. I guess it&#8217;s the nature of the work I&#8217;m doing that determines whether I want music playing. It&#8217;s funny how I could do my homework with the television on when I was in high school. 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